Mother's or older women please answer no responses yet. Bf in duress, help?

ok sounds like to me she has a lot of problems she needs to work out. She has been hurt so many times that she hasn't let it go. I think she needs therapy so she can get help to move past all the hurt she has inside. Bringing her kid around you is a start that she is trying to trust you. Be patient with her give her time to sort all of this out. I think at work she just has so much on her mind that the only way she knows to handle it is to get angry and take it out on everyone. I think she loves you but right now she has a lot going on inside her that needs to be dealt with. Try talking to her about it, if it gets to a point that you feel like you can't handle it then tell her you need space for now and maybe she will get the help she needs. Hang in there and be strong for her she really needs you right now so just listen to what she has to say and don't judge her.